Ways to Become Happy!!

You know the saying " Don't put your happiness in other people's hands"? Well, it is quite right, happiness is never to be found in other people's hands. You can't depend on your next door neighbor to give you cookies or depend on your spouse to surprise you with breakfast in bed or your friend to treat you to desert. Happiness is within you. Its always within reach. 

Take me for instance, I have always been a sad individual and more or less I complained about lack of happy things in my life such as a man who treated me like an angel, friends who always wanted to hang out, strangers that are nice , etc. I never could fathom that happiness was not derived from others that no one would provide happiness because many people have their own worries to be able to give you something they don't have. Happiness is not hard to find though. It is always present. It  should always be the driving force that makes you want to reach for your goals when you are unhappy. You should be happy just for being you even if no one appreciates it or takes the time to praise you. Praise yourself! Reward yourself! You worked hard and feel unappreciated? Well, there's no need to feel that way.. appreciate yourself.

 This is why we should never wait for others to bring us happiness because we are there to give ourselves happiness. If we were to wait on others, it would take a long time to receive it. Its wiser to look for happiness in ourselves than in others. Life was never meant to be lived waiting on others to give you love. Give yourself love. Love your family and those who care for you but don't always make it to be about you. Everyone is just as important as you but you are as important to yourself.